build,meta: quiet/pretty make output by default

[refack]

'cause usually you simply want the job done...
Refs: #26252

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• commit message follows commit guidelines

[refack]

/CC @nodejs/build @nodejs/build-files

Semver-Major since downstream embedders (and our CI) depend on make's output.

[rvagg]

previous discussion, you might want to check with people involved in that: #10403

[rvagg]

fwiw I don't see this as semver-major, I'm not aware of anyone that relies on compiler output in a breaking way. In our CI we could just run make with V=1 everywhere if folks were concerned enough to see the output (I'm not, I like having less output, it makes Jenkins more manageable!).

[refack]

/PING @trevnorris@bnoordhuis@addaleax@gibfahn

BTW: The pretty format comes from GYP

node/tools/gyp/pylib/gyp/generator/make.py

Lines 362 to 366 in ed2c696

	quiet_cmd_cc = CC($(TOOLSET)) $@
	cmd_cc = $(CC.$(TOOLSET)) -o $@ $< $(GYP_CFLAGS) $(DEPFLAGS) $(CFLAGS.$(TOOLSET)) -c
	quiet_cmd_cxx = CXX($(TOOLSET)) $@
	cmd_cxx = $(CXX.$(TOOLSET)) -o $@ $< $(GYP_CXXFLAGS) $(DEPFLAGS) $(CXXFLAGS.$(TOOLSET)) -c

So that could be easily be manipulated as well.

AS for Jenkins, my dream is nodejs/build#1517

[refack]

fwiw I don't see this as semver-major, I'm not aware of anyone that relies on compiler output in a breaking way.

We've had complaints before 🤷‍♂️

[BridgeAR]

CI https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/21741/

[BridgeAR]

Resumed CI https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/21747/