[v16.x backport] tools: update V8 gypfiles for 9.6

[RaisinTen]

This is a clean cherry-pick of 6ac1ccc and 4d2d44f. With this change, it
is possible to cross-compile from x86_64 to ARM64 on macOS.

Fixes: #40350

cc @targos

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Original commit messages:

• tools: update V8 gypfiles for 9.6

  PR-URL: deps: update V8 to 9.6 #40488
  Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng [email protected]
  Reviewed-By: James M Snell [email protected]

• tools: disable trap handler for Windows cross-compiler

  handler-outside-simulator.cc uses inline assembly, which is not
  supported by MSVC.

  PR-URL: deps: update V8 to 9.6 #40488
  Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng [email protected]
  Reviewed-By: James M Snell [email protected]

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/v8-update

[gengjiawen]

Should we add this to github actions ?

[targos]

Should we add this to github actions ?

@gengjiawen what do you mean?

[gengjiawen]

Should we add this to github actions ?

@gengjiawen what do you mean?

cross-compile check on macOS in github actions.

[RaisinTen]

I think we could do that in a separate PR.

[targos]

macOS compilation is very slow in GitHub actions. I'd prefer if we tried to do it on our own machines

[RaisinTen]

The win-vs2019-arm64 build was failing with the same error as reported in #40488 (comment):

C:\workspace\node-compile-windows\node\deps\v8\src\trap-handler\handler-outside-simulator.cc(33,56): error C2290: C++ 'asm' syntax ignored. Use __asm. [C:\workspace\node-compile-windows\node\tools\v8_gypfiles\v8_base_without_compiler_host.vcxproj] 

so I also cherry-picked 4d2d44f.

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/44236/

[juanarbol]

Thank you!!!

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