src: support sync 'overlapped' stdio option

[bnoordhuis]

Fix an oversight in the pull request that introduced the 'overlapped' option to the asynchronous child process methods, and also add it to the synchronous methods, like child_process.spawnSync().

Fixes: #48476
Refs: #29412

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/52296/

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/59103/

[aduh95]

Related CI failures:

not ok 394 parallel/test-child-process-stdio-overlapped --- duration_ms: 235.92300 severity: fail exitcode: 1 stack: |- node:assert:408 throw err; ^ AssertionError [ERR_ASSERTION]: The expression evaluated to a falsy value: assert.ok(error) at Object.<anonymous> (/home/iojs/build/workspace/node-test-commit-smartos/nodes/smartos20-64/test/parallel/test-child-process-stdio-overlapped.js:48:8) at Module._compile (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1434:14) at Module._extensions..js (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1518:10) at Module.load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1249:32) at Module._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1065:12) at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal/modules/run_main:158:12) at node:internal/main/run_main_module:30:49{generatedMessage: true, code: 'ERR_ASSERTION', actual: undefined, expected: true, operator: '==' } Node.js v23.0.0-pre 

[aduh95]

This needs a rebase