bytecodes.c has inconsistent family definition for SEND/SEND_GEN

[gvanrossum]

There's something fishy in the family definition for SEND -- the family name is incorrectly for_iter. But it's not so simple to fix because apparently SEND_GEN has an inconsistent cache effect (which wasn't detected previously because of the duplicate family name -- it's a bug in the cases generator that it doesn't complain about that).

We should both

• Fix the stack effect of SEND_GEN
• Fix the generator to complain about duplicate family names

[gvanrossum]

Was closed by gh-104268.