Update `tarfile.extractall` and friends to use `filter='data'` by default

[edgarrmondragon]

It was deprecated in 3.12 and set for removal in 3.14.

• Implement PEP 706 – Filter for tarfile.extractall #102950
• gh-102950: Implement PEP 706 – Filter for tarfile.extractall #102953

I can open a PR to tackle this if that's ok.

Linked PRs

• gh-118875: Update tarfile.extractall and friends to use filter="data" by default #118940

[nineteendo]

Note it's filter='data'. The warning message should stay but could mention this is only necessary on 3.12 & 3.13.
And that you need to check this manually before that.

[encukou]

Done in #122002. Sorry that we missed this earlier issue.