Add possibility for extension modules to register specialisations of BINARY_OP

[iritkatriel]

Along the lines of the idea presented in faster-cpython/ideas#696, we need a way for extension modules to specialise BINARY_OP instructions with their guard/action functions.

Linked PRs

• gh-133395: add option for extension modules to specialize BINARY_OP/SUBSCR, apply to arrays #133396
• Revert "gh-133395: add option for extension modules to specialize BINARY_OP/SUBSCR, apply to arrays (#133396)" #133498