gh-127536: Add missing locks in listobject.c

[colesbury]

We were missing locks around some list operations in the free threading build.

• Issue: Free threading locking issues in listobject.c #127536

[corona10]

lgtm

[mpage]

Not for this PR, but do you think it would be worthwhile to audit the functions that we expect to be called with the per-object lock held and add _Py_CRITICAL_SECTION_ASSERT_OBJECT_LOCKED() or the equivalent where they're missing?

[colesbury]

Yes, I think additional _Py_CRITICAL_SECTION_ASSERT_OBJECT_LOCKED checks would make sense.

[miss-islington-app]

Thanks @colesbury for the PR 🌮🎉.. I'm working now to backport this PR to: 3.13.
🐍🍒⛏🤖 I'm not a witch! I'm not a witch!

[miss-islington-app]

Sorry, @colesbury, I could not cleanly backport this to 3.13 due to a conflict.
Please backport using cherry_picker on command line.

cherry_picker e51da64ac3bc6cd45339864db32d05115af39ead 3.13 

[bedevere-app]

GH-127613 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.13 branch.

[bedevere-bot]

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Traceback (most recent call last): File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel9-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 587, in <module>globals()[test](*sys.argv[2:]) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel9-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 541, in test_time time.sleep(0) ~~~~~~~~~~^^^ File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel9-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 538, in hookraiseAssertionError('hook failed') AssertionError: hook failed k 

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⚠️⚠️⚠️ Buildbot failure ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Hi! The buildbot s390x RHEL8 Refleaks 3.13 has failed when building commit 4060ef3.

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Traceback (most recent call last): File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel8-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 587, in <module>globals()[test](*sys.argv[2:]) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel8-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 541, in test_time time.sleep(0) ~~~~~~~~~~^^^ File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.13.cstratak-rhel8-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/audit-tests.py", line 538, in hookraiseAssertionError('hook failed') AssertionError: hook failed k