feat: add logs-dir option

[lukekarrys]

Requires: npm/npm-registry-fetch#107

This also allows logs-max to be set to 0 to disable log file writing.

Closes#4466
Closes#4206

[npm-robot]

found 2 benchmarks with statistically significant performance regressions

• app-large: clean, no-clean:audit

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	53.528 ±1.97	34.176 ±0.79	30.485 ±13.13	23.949 ±1.20	3.373 ±0.00	3.530 ±0.06	2.853 ±0.06	14.032 ±0.02	2.836 ±0.03	3.862 ±0.10
#4594	59.775 ±1.57	34.754 ±0.18	21.901 ±0.96	24.484 ±1.22	3.643 ±0.11	3.626 ±0.17	2.788 ±0.04	14.509 ±0.00	2.915 ±0.01	4.297 ±0.16

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	43.734 ±2.75	26.167 ±0.19	15.547 ±0.26	16.923 ±0.55	3.173 ±0.02	3.316 ±0.07	2.988 ±0.00	10.622 ±0.05	2.695 ±0.04	3.689 ±0.04
#4594	46.480 ±0.46	26.839 ±0.20	16.371 ±0.11	16.966 ±0.17	3.249 ±0.17	3.136 ±0.03	2.975 ±0.22	10.609 ±0.03	2.686 ±0.01	3.614 ±0.10

[wraithgar]

Lots of good cleanup in this feat.

[lukekarrys]

Just a note that this PR should probably be rebased, as I added the deps as separate commits.